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Ever do a thing that seems cool and powerful and then later realize, “oh wait, that wasn’t cool after all and was actually way too mean…” and feel regret? That happens, probably way more than any of us actually want, so let’s learn ways to shift the odds to our favor! In order to do so, we must first determine the key differences between dominance and cruelty.
Madame Vanessa Davis and Misstress Belladiva Bonesaw will convey how to demonstrate power without using force. Together with the trusty slave chase, they will act out shamelessly cheesy role-play scenarios of various kink interactions as both good cop and bad cop. They will also touch on how, sometimes, it’s okay to behave in a way that could seem really mean to outsiders, but actually isn’t because it’s been explicitly consented to without coercion or threat. The “cruel mistress” archetype is popular enough to have garnered a place in popular fantasy, after all!
Attendees will be invited to share their observations and pose their questions during the class, making it a truly interactive learning experience.
About the presenters:
Madame Vanessa began her kink journey in 2008 in Paris and spent a few years traveling and enjoying a variety of dungeons before she found The Woodshed Orlando and called it home in 2011. This bondage-loving sadist started out a vanilla mean girl, but learned the lovely language of consent through BDSM education and credits the lifestyle for giving her a platform for honesty, reform, and discipline. She’s dedicated both her home and writing career to kink and never plans for that to change.
Mistress Belladiva has been an active player on both sides of the whip in the Central Florida scene for nearly 15 years, and has spent the last 11 years building a reputation as one of Orlando's most sought after "Soft Dommes." Her unique vanilla life experiences in funeral service and hospitality have shaped her domination style. As a sweet, caring, and supportive Mistress, exploring the balance between natural sadism and kindness is a pursuit near and dear to her heart. Her favorite color is pink.
"Oh Fuck... was that too mean?"
| Saturday, November 16, 2019 05:00pm - 07:00pm |
Ever do a thing that seems cool and powerful and then later realize, “oh wait, that wasn’t cool after all and was actually way too mean…” and feel regret? That happens, probably way more than any of us actually want, so let’s learn ways to shift the odds to our favor! In order to do so, we must first determine the key differences between dominance and cruelty.
Madame Vanessa Davis and Misstress Belladiva Bonesaw will convey how to demonstrate power without using force. Together with the trusty slave chase, they will act out shamelessly cheesy role-play scenarios of various kink interactions as both good cop and bad cop. They will also touch on how, sometimes, it’s okay to behave in a way that could seem really mean to outsiders, but actually isn’t because it’s been explicitly consented to without coercion or threat. The “cruel mistress” archetype is popular enough to have garnered a place in popular fantasy, after all!
Attendees will be invited to share their observations and pose their questions during the class, making it a truly interactive learning experience.
About the presenters:
Madame Vanessa began her kink journey in 2008 in Paris and spent a few years traveling and enjoying a variety of dungeons before she found The Woodshed Orlando and called it home in 2011. This bondage-loving sadist started out a vanilla mean girl, but learned the lovely language of consent through BDSM education and credits the lifestyle for giving her a platform for honesty, reform, and discipline. She’s dedicated both her home and writing career to kink and never plans for that to change.
Mistress Belladiva has been an active player on both sides of the whip in the Central Florida scene for nearly 15 years, and has spent the last 11 years building a reputation as one of Orlando's most sought after "Soft Dommes." Her unique vanilla life experiences in funeral service and hospitality have shaped her domination style. As a sweet, caring, and supportive Mistress, exploring the balance between natural sadism and kindness is a pursuit near and dear to her heart. Her favorite color is pink.
